Sour Skittles

Excuse this blog post with random typing of lot of different subjects stuffed into one. Just know I am ranting. Maybe I really do not know what I’m looking for when it comes to a female or maybe its just all the cruddy stuff I hear and see. I see an attractive girl with all the physical qualities but may have everything else out of wack. I’m currently testing waters because I don’t wanna be stuck with the girl that looks like Lauren London but is trying to send faxes with a toaster. So this is my current position and my approach is real simple; as long as I stay real with the girl then she can never get mad at the circumstances. But as I’ve discovered these past couple years that there is no real simple approach at all. So many girls bring you bags from their past guys and think you will be the same way or have the same attributes. The bad part about it is for all these bad chicks in the world its always somebody who is tired of dealing with them and a hundred other guys clamming what they can do that the girl current guy can’t. Next thing you know she is stuck in the same kinda position she has just left. I think I’ve figured out females to some extent and the biggest thing I have learned is never to believe what you hear. A prime example of this is when a girl tells you what she wants from a man. You have to let things play out because eventually she begins to show you her true intent. I see now that I can’t win. Girls scream about wanting a man that “doesn’t play games”, but when you are totally honest it’s still a problem. Like I said, I don’t know what I’m looking for but I’m not the dude that’s gonna shyt on you. If you wanna hang out, we can hang out, if you wanna chill, we can chill. So what I believe females really wants is to be content without getting bored and a sense of getting what she has put in work for which is love. That’s why some guys that are too nice and are too willing don’t get back the same results of what they put in. The guys that get the most love are the guys not interested in love at all. She needs to feel like you have a foot out the door but at the same time knows that she can pull you right back. The crazy part about this blogpost is that all this stuff I am talking can go both ways but oh well...... Off to work!

That’s why this blog post is called Sour Skittles because it’s bittersweet.